Or I could say it another way...to do it or not to do it? One of the most oft quoted Shakespeare lines is very appropriate to this post. On many a wedding day photography shoot 'that is the question' !
I place great importance in trying to instill a little bit of reality about wedding day photography with couples who book me to cover their wedding day. I say this because this is what I do and have done for many years. It is my profession and I have learned many valuable lessons over the years in relation to what can go wrong on a wedding day.
If something is going to go wrong on a wedding day, you can rest assured that it is going to be related to time or put it another way, the lack of time! Wedding days fly by. Just ask any couple who have been married what would they do differently if they could have their wedding day all over again and I can guarantee you that most of them would say they would have an earlier wedding!
I have couples who will ask my advise about the day and they will take my suggestions on board, or most or some of them. Conversely, I have couples who will ask for advise and then ignore it! What most couples fail to understand at an early stage is that I am the one person on the day they are going to be spending some time with and there is no one more conscious of time on a wedding day than I am!
Having said that, normally the question arises about the amount of time I will be spending taking photographs. This is a very reasonable question as I am conscious that this is the Bride & Grooms wedding day and not my day! The answer to this question will depend on various factors involved on the day. For example, are they planning to go somewhere specific for their photographs? If so, how far away is the shoot location? It may take a half an hour to get to the shoot location but I may only take 15 minutes to take the required images. Normally this distance is not factored in and thus it looks like I now took an hour and 15 minutes to take the shots!
Realistically, on most wedding days I will take no longer then 30 minutes to take the main body of shots required. I will always tell the couple not to be afraid to ask if 'I will be long more' as this is my que to wrap it up! Honestly, this very rarely happens and the only time I have to put the couple under pressure to get some shots for them is if they have run out of time due to their days timings going awry.
The other side to this is in regards to the advise mentioned above. Sometimes a couple will make a suggestion regarding photographs, and I am always open to suggestions. However when the day arrives they may change their mind for what ever reason. Maybe they have had enough and just want to relax, maybe they think they have enough images taken already or other reasons. At this stage most couples will ask my advise generally in the realm of 'do I think its worth it'?
This is where my experience comes in. Often a couple will suggest going to a certain place for photographs and I have to weigh up the factors involved such as will the return in the amount and variety of images justify the time used on their day? I will try to be as honest as possible with the couple and I will not say 'I dont think that worth it' just so I can have a cushy day and finish early! Sometimes its a little easier and I use the sample image below to get my point across.
On this particular day, which by the way was a lovely wedding day with some beautiful images taken, the couple arrived at their hotel. We had finished the majority of the photo shoot at another location and just before we left the bride & groom mentioned the possibility of having some images taken in the location shown in the image. I knew where they were talking about but was not sure if it was suitable as up to that stage it was no more than waste ground. As I approached the hotel I slowed down to have a quick look at the site and decided that I could certainly do something interesting there as it had been cleaned up and some paths and seats put in.
When the bride and groom arrived at the hotel, I mentioned going across to the area for a couple of quick images. They looked at each other and asked if they had enough photos taken. They were earring on the 'enough' side and asked what I thought. I said that it was basically a 2 minute walk across the road and that I think they should give it a shot and that I would make it very quick. I also added that I think it would be well worth it and that I could get some nice images.
They took my advise and it turned out that it was one of their favorite photographs taken on the day. Afterwards the bride said that they would have been so disappointed if they had not listened to me. The image was used across two pages of their finished album to show it to good effect. It is the quintessential image of Wexford town and a lovely image to have on your wedding day if you are from the area. Incidentally, it was one of several nice images taken in the area.
So, to be or not to be, that is the question my dear Hamlet! Its hard to beat experience and good advise.!